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Spend your days playing! - How to love the life you live.  
by Ben Drury

"The master in the art of living makes little distinction between his work and his play, his labor and his leisure, his mind and his body, his information and his recreation, his love and his religion. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence at whatever he does, leaving others to decide whether he is working or playing. To him he's always doing both." - James Michener (American Author).

Do you get up in the morning really excited about going to work? Do you spend your working day playing? Do you want to?

Well let me help you on your way.

In order to live in the playground of life you need to start by being able to answer certain questions - the following 7 questions:

1. What activities keep your attention the longest? What fascinates you?
2. What in life energises you? What makes you more alive and wakes you up when your tired?
3. When you are at your most excited, most joyful what are you usually doing?
4. What topics do you love to discuss with your friends. What ideas and subjects most interest you?
5. What did you dream of doing when you were a child that no longer seems possible as an adult?
6. What would you do for free?
7. If you could do anything at all as a job, money was no object and success was guaranteed, what would you do?

These questions are all very similar and your answers to each one will be similar, but they will tease out the hidden passion inside of you.

If you really want to make the most of these questions, you need to spend some quality time on them. Why not take one question a day over the next week and commit to spend an hour in a peaceful place writing down your thoughts.

You don't need to be organised or neat. Be creative! Write down your first thoughts, your last thoughts, your crazy thoughts, your impossible thoughts - no constraints, anything goes. Write down the feelings and the memories these question evoke. There is no need for order or understanding yet, just get it all down on paper!

Next time we will organise your random thoughts as we move to step two - How to create the life you've always dreamed of by living out your passion!

About the Author

At the age of 17 a group of students at his school wanted to start a band. Ben paid for a venue, sold tickets and even arranged a bus to get people there. The place was packed and the atmosphere was electric. He has been creating opportunities to develop people every since. His Mission is to enable and empower individuals to reach their maximum potential, build a strong and exciting future and live life to the full.





Do You Want to Increase Engagement and Happiness?  
by Maurine Patten

Copyright (c) 2007 Maurine Patten

Are you tired of feeling like you are just going through the motions in life? How would things be different for you if you felt excited or passionate about your life? Feeling engaged in what you are doing is one of the four types of happiness described in A Primer in Positive Psychology (2006) by Christopher Peterson. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi refers to it as flow.

Engagement is being involved in activities that attract and hold your attention. Athletes refer to it as "being in the zone"; others say it is being focused. Characteristics of being engaged are:

* Having high levels of concentration and focus
* Being unaware of feelings in the moment
* Feeling invigorated afterwards
* Losing track of time
* Using your strengths
* Living your values
* Being authentic

Being engaged in an activity creates positive emotions afterwards that build psychological resources. It can be thought of as psychological capital that will build your cognitive and behavioral repertoire for future actions. It helps you manage stressful areas in your life by creating positive emotions that can undo the physiological effects of negative emotions, such as anxiety. Cognitively, you experience enhanced verbal fluency and attention, increased openness to information, and greater working memory.

Engagement in the work place is critical for both the employer and employee. According to a recent Gallup study that looked at three types of U.S. employees, only 28% of the employees could be described as engaged. This meant that they worked with a passion, had a strong connection to their company, were innovative, and moved the organization forward. Of the 72% that were not engaged, 55% were basically sleepwalking through their day, putting in their time. No energy or passion went into their work. The final 17% were actively disengaged. They were unhappy at work and acted it out by under-mining what the engaged coworkers accomplished.

The key to being engaged is finding the optimal balance between skill level and challenge. The challenge must meet your skill level, and vice versa. If there is too much challenge or too low a skill level, it is difficult to feel engaged. As you learn more or become more skilled, the challenge must be increased.

For engagement to be present in the business world, there needs to be a balance between the challenge and skill level of the activity. The higher the challenge the more support is needed from leaders and managers.

Engagement can be experienced at any age level and in all kinds of activities. Whether at work or play, the activities are often perceived as voluntary. You do not have to be an expert.

Students rarely experience engagement during school activities or doing homework. Watching television, hanging out with friends, or playing video games does not create true engagement because the level of inspiration does not last. These activities fall more into what is called "false engagement". On the other hand, discussions or deeper conversations with friends may be true engagement if the basic characteristics are met.

What activities can you choose to do daily that will allow you to experience this level of happiness? The rewards for engagement are tremendous. Whether it is short-lived or longer, you will benefit from activities that allow you to be engaged - to build the positive emotions that further inspire and motivate you.

About the Author

Maurine Patten, Ed.D., CMC, Maximize Your Possibilities http://www.PattenCoaching.com More free information, assessment and ezine subscription at http://www.PattenCoaching.com/EI.html Mailto:mdpcoach@pattencoaching.com





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